We're answering 2 listener questions: how to overcome over-analyzing and self-doubt in social situations, andhow to find one's identity and purpose after kids.We're talking about overcoming overanalyzing and insecurity, understanding attachment styles, building a relationship with oneself, and finding personal identity and purpose.The more threatened we feel, the more we need to control. And if we can't control anything else, we'll control the narrative. - Tillie HarrisIN THIS EPISODE:The role of the internal critic and its originThe concept of attachment styles and their impact on relationshipsHow a fear of not being thought about can drive our behavior Attachment styles and survival strategiesWhy we overanalyze and assign negative motives to othersTraining the brain to behave differently and remapping the story AND...How to find out what to do nextBeing self-focused isn't being selfishYour intuition will tell you...if you are listeningStarting where you are and practical resources to helpGET A FULL TRANSCRIPT + show notes: www.onairella.com/post/334-tillie-harris-----------------------------------LET'S CONNECT:Instagram @onairwithella Web www.onairella.com☎️ Leave a voice message: +1 (202) 681-0388 ------------------------------------⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Would you take 23 secs to leave a review?Click here, scroll to the bottom, and tap five stars. Then click "Write a Review." Leave a comment and we might read it on the air! ------------------------------- ?️ PROMOS:Shop Kion Amino Acids - promo code ONAIRELLAGet my favorite probiotic Oxyceutics - use code ELLA15 to save 15% (tip: use “subscribe & save” for additional 20% discount)